It’s waiting for a better question?

I make things that ask: coaching, essays, and a one-line-a-day journal. So you stop carrying it alone.

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You’ve been going back and forth on the same decision for months. Every angle, every list. It still won’t budge.

Everything I make starts there.

What I make

Everything here does the same job, at a different depth.

Coaching

For the decision that won’t budge. I don’t hand you answers. I get you out of your own head and into the decision itself, and what you decide stays yours.

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Writing

Honest to Greatness: essays on careers that stop following the script, and the quiet cost of becoming someone new. A new one every two weeks.

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Building

A journal for people who quit journals: one line a day, thirty seconds tonight, a time machine in a year. In progress for iOS. Plus a five-minute Energy Assessment, and the 7-Day Honest Check-In: one question a day, by email, for seven days.

Energy Assessment 7-Day Check-In

“Through his thoughtful and skillful questions, I was able to reflect deeply and uncover my own answers. By the end of the session, I reached a confident decision about my next career step, something I’d been struggling with for months.”

M. N. — Technology Policy

About

You’ve read all the right books. I have too.

None of them ask back. That gap is what I build in.

Twice I asked for a different role and got a no. Twice I built something on the side instead. The first was a chalk lettering studio. The business didn’t last. The move did. The second is the coaching practice you’re reading about right now.

I got ICF-trained because the work I was already doing informally, sitting with people while they worked through hard calls, needed method under the instinct.

Everything here is one bet, made three ways: you’re too close to your own life to see its patterns. The right question creates the distance.

By day: Program Manager at TikTok, Singapore.